Parenthood by Proxy

Parenthood by Proxy
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Children's welfare is the driving force behind Dr. Laura Schlessinger's mission. A devoted mother to her son, Deryk, she identifies herself as "her kid's mom" because that's her most important job.

Never one to shy away from tough truths, Dr. Laura marshalls compelling evidence for the widespread neglect of America's children and convincingly condemns the numerous rationalizations to excuse it. Parents, special interest groups, and professionals in education and psychology all contribute to a dangerous trend that places adult fulfillment above obligation to children. Parenthood by Proxy addresses the serious causes and effects of this national crisis, among them the high rate of divorce, serial marriages, single parenting, the premature sexualization of children, dual-career families, disdain for religion, the redefinition of immoral behavior as lifestyle choices, and societal intolerance for the concept of judgment.

In Parenthood by Proxy, Dr. Laura exhorts parents to make their own children their top priority and, if necessary, to change their lives to do so. In her inimitable, straight-shooting style, Dr. Laura entreats parents to involve themselves in their children's hearts, minds, and souls, to cherish and protect them, and to commit to the essential task of teaching them right from wrong. She acknowledges that parents no longer get much support from neighbors or public and private institutions, but she urges mothers and fathers to work even harder to counteract the prevailing culture of selfishness and irresponsibility.

Parenthood by Proxy covers all aspects of parenting, from childbearing to discipline, from multiple families to being role models. Dr. Laura also tackles such cultural and societal concerns as abortion, modern sexuality, drug and alcohol use, violence, discipline, and a child's right to privacy.

Parenthood by Proxy is a passionate and provocative summation of the perils of parenting and a road map to safety for America's families.

Author: Dr. Laura, Schlessinger
Publisher: HarperCollins e-books
Customer Reviews
  • Dr. Laura has transformed our life with her words
    I am very lucky to find Dr. Laura before I became a mom. If I did not listen to her, I will definitely keep working at my career and thinking I am doing the right thing (and the best thing) for my children.But reading this book and listen to her show make me realize quickly what a child need. They need a mom! I shared this book with my husband and we decided I will stay home with our children. When we put our family first, everything else seems to prosper. We are really happy and thriving family and I thank Dr. Laura for opening my eyes. <br />Also I recommend another book for all moms who just have babies or who want to stay home with their children. LILY WANG's BABY HAIKU: What your baby want you to know. She stays home with her two children and she wrote those heart-warming poems after she sends her children to sleep. If she can figure out a way to realize herself while stay home with her babies, I can too.
  • Stay at home if you can
    If, and "if" is the key word here, if you can arrange to stay at home with your children, you should.<br>After listening to Laura's advice, I found out that I was missing the most important years with my kids and decided to stay at home. After all, children are our most valuble resource and they deserve our love and undivided attention.
  • I agreed with everything she was saying about parenthood
    I do believe we need to do more for our children and parents, especially for the mothers. This book talks about the importance of having a dad in a child's life, stupid reasons why to have kids and why we need to be there for our children and raise them also. I also agree with her that a child needs both parents, a mom and a dad.
  • Well this says it all
    "My moms were better parents than 99% of the straight parents out there"<p>The fact that you believe this shows what was wrong with your parenting relationship. Even those of us doing all the "right" things still would not pretend that we are better parents than this one or that. <p>Your two moms are still not a mom and a dad. They may have been wonderful, but they are still not equal to an equally good mother and father, I think that is always Dr. Laura's point and I agree. And I speak from experience having an absolutely wonderful lesbian sil who raised her 3 children after abandonment with her companion. These children still missed out on a father. Truth is truth. Why can't people accept that without getting so defensive?
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